Building your tribe is a phrase I have been hearing a lot lately. We call it your fearbuster team at FLI, but I believe it is the same concept. "No one can be fearless alone" Rhonda Britten says, and it's true. Who do you have around you? Who is building you up and seeing your capability? Who really has your back when the crap hits the fan? These people are your tribe.
Fearless Fox Friday!
Do you have a team of fearbusters behind you? That is the question today. I could go into the different kind of fearbusters to look for, but whether you have some is more important. Maybe I need to start with what is a fearbuster. Fearbusters, bust our fears. Simply put, they believe in us. They tell us "Yes you can" instead of "Are you sure that is wise, remember last time?" They see our potential and encourage us and support us in achieving our dreams. Fearbusters are powerful partners, cheerleaders, and voices of experience who rally us forward towards our true selves. They help us see past the lies and limitations to truly see our own rock star status. On the other hand, "Fear Junkies" discourage us, such as dream drainers, rearview mirrors, or rivals in disguise.
I have lots of supporters in my life. Some are better at it than others. I know who to go to for what and how to know their fears from mine. This was something learned with a lot of practice. How do you know who to go to for certain things? Sometimes you have a conversation with them and ask if they are willing to support you in this way. You really can't say the wrong thing to the right person. If they are your true tribe, they will be there for you when you ask. It is your job to be clear in what you are needing and ask for it.
If you are wanting to add a coach to your fearbuster team, I'm here for you. Email me and let's get together. Let's hatch into the stars that we are!
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